Being in the limelight really puts a person at risk for more dangerous situations. If you are looking to pursue a career in acting, modeling, radio or professional sports, the best thing you can do to protect yourself is to get educated in the aspects of plausible danger.
Although there are laws in place to protect a person against a stalker, it seems as though those laws are still growing to perfection, which means you need to always trust your instincts and further more make a check-list starting with warning signs and working your way up security. You should never put your well-being and safety on the backburner. Trust that inner voice that tells you something is intolerable and listen to those doubts that were never there before. If you have to obtain assistance in labeling your problem with proper terms, from law officials you have allowed it to go to far, by denial.
There are certain warning signs and characteristics that a plausible stalker will display or reflect. Some things to take notice of, are people that are jealous, obsessive, compulsive, manipulative, socially awkward, need to have constant control, deceptive, cannot take no for an answer, fall instantly in love, and cannot take responsibility for their own actions or feelings. If you start to notice that everywhere you go, you continuously “run into” the same person that needs to be a red flag warning. Nobody is in the same place you are every time venture out unless you take him or her with you. continue reading…